Introduction — A Wounded Society
- We live in a wounded society.
- Not every wound is physical or visible.
- Emotional and spiritual wounds may be hidden from everyone around us.
- People become skilled at functioning while wounded.
- We learn to smile wounded.
- We learn to work wounded.
- We may even learn to serve God wounded.
- Learning to live with a wound does not mean the wound has healed.
- Wounds affect our relationships.
- Past betrayal, abandonment, mistreatment, or rejection can distort present relationships.
- We begin interpreting innocent actions through the lens of old pain.
- We may protect ourselves from people who never harmed us.
- The person who caused the wound may be gone, while the wound continues hurting the people who stayed and genuinely love us.
- Wounds affect our faithfulness.
- Untreated hurt can become bitterness.
Hebrews 12:15 (KJV) — “Looking diligently lest any man fail of the grace of God; lest any root of bitterness springing up trouble you, and thereby many be defiled.”
- Bitterness begins in one person but eventually affects many others.
- Wounds may also produce isolation.
- We withdraw because we fear being hurt again.
- What began as self-protection eventually becomes separation.
- Wounds can affect our service to God.
- We stop trusting.
- We stop loving freely.
- We may even blame God for what happened.
- The enemy wants to use something that wounded us yesterday to keep us from being faithful today.
I. The Seriousness of the Wound
Isaiah 1:6 (KJV) — “From the sole of the foot even unto the head there is no soundness in it; but wounds, and bruises, and putrifying sores: they have not been closed, neither bound up, neither mollified with ointment.”
- Isaiah was describing Judah’s spiritual condition under God’s chastening, but God uses the imagery of an untreated physical wound.
A. Untreated wounds remain open.
- An open wound remains vulnerable.
- The skin ordinarily protects the body from harmful things outside of it.
- Once that protective barrier is broken, things that should have remained outside can enter the wound and cause infection.
- Spiritually, an untreated wound can allow:
- Hurt to become bitterness.
- Fear to become distrust.
- Grief to become hopelessness.
- Guilt to become an identity.
- There is a difference between being wounded and remaining wounded.
- The original wound may not be the greatest problem anymore.
- The greater problem may be what has begun growing inside because the wound was never treated.
- The wound may not have been your fault, but the infection still requires treatment.
B. Untreated wounds affect healthy areas.
- Eventually, a wound begins affecting things that were never originally wounded.
- One broken relationship causes distrust toward everyone.
- One failure years ago allows shame to control how we see ourselves today.
- One season of loss creates bitterness toward God in another season.
- Hurt from one church causes someone to refuse closeness in another church.
- Like an unnoticed diabetic wound, spiritual wounds can become increasingly serious while the person grows accustomed to them.
- Sometimes the greatest danger is not the wound we still feel, but the wound we have learned not to feel.
- We cannot change where the wound came from, but we can decide whether we will allow God to heal it.
Jeremiah 8:22 (KJV) — “Is there no balm in Gilead; is there no physician there? why then is not the health of the daughter of my people recovered?”
II. The Source of the Wound
A. Wounds others gave us.
- Sometimes people simply hurt us.
- Words are spoken that we did not deserve.
- Trust is betrayed.
- Someone abandons us when we need them.
- Someone sins against us.
Psalm 55:12–14 (KJV) — “For it was not an enemy that reproached me; then I could have borne it: neither was it he that hated me that did magnify himself against me; then I would have hid myself from him: But it was thou, a man mine equal, my guide, and mine acquaintance. We took sweet counsel together, and walked unto the house of God in company.”
- David understood the wound of betrayal by someone close.
- The closer the relationship, the deeper the wound can be.
- Strangers can hurt us.
- Friends can wound us.
- Family can devastate us.
- Brothers and sisters in Christ can deeply injure us.
- Being wounded by someone does not give us permission to become bitter toward everyone.
B. Wounds we gave ourselves.
- Sometimes we are suffering because of our own decisions.
- Sin has consequences.
- God forgives sin, but forgiveness does not necessarily erase every earthly consequence.
- David was forgiven, but consequences remained in his household.
- Foolish decisions leave scars.
- God warns us because He knows what sin will do to us.
Psalm 38:4–5 (KJV) — “For mine iniquities are gone over mine head: as an heavy burden they are too heavy for me. My wounds stink and are corrupt because of my foolishness.”
- Healing begins with honesty.
- Stop blaming others for what you did.
- Stop renaming what God calls sin.
- Bring it honestly before God.
- Repentance is not the same as lifelong self-punishment.
1 John 1:9 (KJV) — “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”
- If God has forgiven what we have confessed, we should not allow the wound of our past to continue destroying our joy and usefulness for Christ.
C. Wounds life gave us.
- Some wounds were not caused deliberately by anyone.
- We live in a fallen world where:
- People die.
- People become sick.
- Plans collapse.
- Dreams do not happen.
- People leave through circumstances no one chose.
- Pain is not necessarily evidence of bitterness.
- Grief is real.
- Sorrow is real.
- Tears are real.
- Even wounds that nobody deliberately caused still require treatment.
III. The Treatment of the Wound
Jeremiah asks, “Is there no balm in Gilead?”
- The balm of Gilead was a valuable medicinal substance associated with healing.
- The picture is clear: there is treatment available.
A. The wound must be cleaned.
- A physical wound cannot safely be closed while dirt, debris, and infection remain inside.
- Sometimes dead or damaged tissue must be removed.
- The process of cleaning a wound can hurt, but it is necessary for healing.
Psalm 139:23–24 (KJV) — “Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts: And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.”
- Spiritually, cleaning means allowing God to expose and remove:
- Bitterness.
- Anger.
- Resentment.
- Distrust.
- Discouragement.
- Sin produced inside us because of the original injury.
- If someone wounded you, cleaning the wound does not mean calling their sin acceptable.
- It means refusing to allow their sin against you to continue producing sin inside you.
B. The wound must be covered.
Isaiah 1:6 (KJV) — “They have not been closed, neither bound up…”
Psalm 147:3 (KJV) — “He healeth the broken in heart, and bindeth up their wounds.”
- A wound is covered and protected so harmful things cannot continually enter it.
- Spiritually, we cannot provide our own covering.
- We cannot undo our sin.
- We cannot cleanse ourselves.
- We cannot pay the debt created by sin.
1 John 1:7 (KJV) — “…the blood of Jesus Christ his Son cleanseth us from all sin.”
Revelation 1:5 (KJV) — “…Unto him that loved us, and washed us from our sins in his own blood.”
- The blood of Christ answers the guilt of the self-inflicted wound.
- It also cleanses the sinful responses we have allowed into wounds others caused.
Romans 8:1 (KJV) — “There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus…”
- Conviction brings us to Christ.
- Condemnation keeps us staring at ourselves.
- The scar may remind us of what we did, but the blood reminds us of what Christ did.
C. The wound must be cared for.
- Healing takes time.
- We should not expect every deep emotional or spiritual wound to disappear instantly after one trip to the altar.
- Healing can be:
- Tender.
- Painful.
- Uncomfortable.
- Slow.
- Pain during the healing process does not necessarily mean healing is not occurring.
- A wound must continue receiving proper attention while it heals.
D. The wound must be checked.
- Healing wounds should be inspected for infection.
- Spiritually, we must continually check our hearts.
- Is bitterness returning?
- Am I withdrawing and isolating myself?
- Has grief become anger toward God?
- Has distrust begun affecting innocent people?
Hebrews 12:15 (KJV) — “Looking diligently…”
- Pay close attention to your heart.
- Do not allow an old wound to become newly infected.
E. The wound can be cured.
- Your wound does not have to define the rest of your life.
- Healing does not mean there will never be a scar.
- A scar acknowledges that something happened.
- But a scar also testifies that healing occurred.
A wound says, “I am hurting.” A scar says, “I was hurt, but healing has occurred.”
- There is life beyond the wound.
IV. The Physician for the Wound
- A wound cannot:
- Clean itself.
- Cover itself.
- Care for itself.
- Check itself.
- Cure itself.
- It needs the hand of someone capable of treating it.
- Spiritually, that Physician is Jesus Christ.
A. The Physician must be trusted.
- We must admit that we cannot heal ourselves.
- We must stop trying merely to manage the wound ourselves.
- We must place what hurts into His hands.
Matthew 11:28 (KJV) — “Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.”
- We cannot ask the Physician to heal what we refuse to place in His hands.
B. The Physician knows the wound.
Hebrews 4:15 (KJV) — “For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities…”
- Christ knows:
- What happened.
- How deeply it hurt.
- What it has produced inside us.
Isaiah 53:3 (KJV) — “He is despised and rejected of men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief…”
- We are not bringing our pain to an unfeeling Physician.
- Christ is intimately acquainted with sorrow and grief.
C. The Physician knows the proper treatment.
- Different wounds may require different treatment.
Some wounds require forgiveness.
Ephesians 4:32 (KJV) — “And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ’s sake hath forgiven you.”
Some wounds require repentance.
1 John 1:9 (KJV) — “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins…”
Some wounds require comfort.
2 Corinthians 1:3–4 (KJV) — God is “the Father of mercies, and the God of all comfort; Who comforteth us in all our tribulation…”
- Christ knows exactly which treatment the wound requires.
D. The Physician is available.
Jeremiah asks:
“Is there no balm in Gilead; is there no physician there?”
- Yes, there is a balm.
- Yes, there is a Physician.
- Therefore the great question becomes:
“Why then is not the health of the daughter of my people recovered?”
- The problem is not that healing is unavailable.
- Often the problem is that wounded people refuse the treatment.
Conclusion — Why Remain Wounded?
- Churches are hurting because churches are made of people, and people are wounded.
- Sometimes we turn wounds into a badge of honor.
- We allow bitterness, anger, resentment, and frustration to become so dominant that we see everything through the injury.
- Eventually:
- We stop listening.
- We stop trusting.
- We stop praying.
- We stop reading Scripture.
- We stop attending church.
- We isolate ourselves from people who actually care about us.
- Do not allow someone who wounded you in the past to continue harming the people God has placed in your life today.
- There is treatment.
- There is balm.
- There is a Physician.
Four Questions
- Have you recognized the wound?
- Ask God to place His finger upon the area that needs attention.
- Are you willing to release the wound?
- Give it to God.
- Allow the Great Physician to begin His work.
- Are you receiving the treatment?
- Healing may be tender and uncomfortable.
- Stay with the treatment God prescribes.
- Do you trust the Physician?
- For the Christian, return to Christ with the wound.
- For the lost person, first come to Christ for salvation.
Final Thought: A scar is far better than a bleeding, infected wound. There is a balm in Gilead, and there is a Great Physician. The question is whether we will place the wound into His hands.